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How do you know you are likeable?
Did it happen to you in your life to meet a stranger and get that instant feeling that you really love her from the bottom of your heart? May be she did not even open her mouth to speak to you. May be she did not even smile at you but you just loved her. This doesn’t happen between persons of opposite sex only. There is an instant emotional connection that may go one or both ways and the benefits may be immeasurable. Here is an article by Amorie Lim, 11 Signs You Are An Exceptionally Likeable Person( Even If You Don’t Feel You Are)-Being a likeable person brings you many benefits. People who are likeable often get more privileges in life. People enjoy being around you if you are likeable, and as a result, you are often being treated kindly. You gain more opportunities when you are likeable, because let’s face it, people enjoy giving opportunities to people they like. We can all learn to be likeable, if we are willing to make ourselves a better person.
Check out these 11 signs of an exceptionally likeable person:
Likeable people say what they mean, and they mean what they say. They are always honest to themselves and to others. They never try to be someone they are not. People who appreciate honesty feel comfortable asking for their opinion, because they know that they will always tell them the truth.
2. They are curious about others
Likeable people is very interested in what others have to share with them. They enjoy learning about others and value what they can learn from everyone. People love to share their stories and experiences with them because they know that they will be thrilled to hear their stories.
Likeable people are always attentive to what people are telling them. They are not distracted or too eager to speak out when someone is sharing their stories or telling them something. People enjoy talking to them because they are always respectful to the person they are interacting with during conversations.
4. They are humble
To them, humility is the ability or the willingness to learn from others. They never hesitate to share the credit for the accomplishment they achieved. People like having them as their friend, because of their humbleness.
5. They are always punctual
They are always on time for their meetings or appointments, because they respect the time of others. They organize their time effectively. People are pleased with their punctuality and are rest assured that they will always be on time for any occasion.
6. They are not judgemental
They understand that every individual is different, so they don’t criticize the choices other people make, even if those choices are very different from their personal preferences. People feel comfortable sharing their situation with them because they know that they will always respect their choices, and that they will never judge them or the decisions they make.
7. They are caring and helpful
They always lend a hand to the people who needed help if they are able. They care about others’ feelings and need. People come to them when they really needed help, because they know that they will try to help them as long as they are able to.