Stop Blocking Your Way To Success

What do you think about the wealthy people? When I talk about wealthy, I am not just talking about millions or billions on money. I am also talking about how that money was earned. I am thinking about the personality traits, the beliefs, the attitude, the state of mind of the rich person etc.

The list can be long when you try to define a wealthy person as I mentioned in my previous articles. Success in life doesn’t necessarily mean money. Your freedom, your peace of mind, your heath, your relationships are equally important for your overall success.

You will tell me that if you have the money, you can get everything else you want in life. Many people think that way. However, you may have heard others saying: there are things money can’t buy. I think they are right too.

Back to our question: What do you think about the rich people? From my own experience, there are two opposite points of views. The first one is from those who hate the wealthy. They call them evil, wicked, heartless, etc. Those are the people who believe that they are poor because the rich are rich. They will be poorer as the rich get richer.

The second point of view comes from people who admire the wealthy. They believe the wealthy are smart. They work hard to earn the life of their dreams. They boast the economy of their country. They solve people’s problems, respond to their needs by bringing closer to them the products and services they need. The wealthy create jobs and give to charity.

No matter where you stand, you need to step back and visualize your life today. What is your situation now? Do you like who and where you are today? Find a way to change your situation. The first step would be to discover your  roadblocks.

Be yourself

I have seen in my life people who before buying a dress, will have to collect opinions from family members and friends. What a waste of time! First of all, ask yourself: do I like this dress? Trust your instincts. If that dress strikes you the first time you see it and you feel that the price is right, go ahead and buy it.

A few days ago, I had a conversation with a friend who was very concerned about what other people think about him and his project. I told him to go ahead with his project and forget what people would say or think. There will be always people who will like you the way you are. Those are the people you need in your life.

Cultivate a can-do- attitude

I came across colleagues, family members who truly believed that they couldn’t do certain things even before trying. If you don’t believe in yourself, no one will. You have to believe in your capacity to do good things in your life. If you fail, remember that failure is an asset, it is a set back for a come back. You got a problem if you can’t learn from your mistakes.

Recognize your sacrifice boundaries

I have a friend who has been working hard for 15 years. She earns $15 per hour. She lives alone in a basement apartment. She cooks her food and never eats out. She takes the bus to her work. What does she do with the $100 she saves every month? She sends the money to her relatives in Africa.

Now tell me. Do you think they understand how hard it is to do what she is doing? Do you think they are using that money wisely? I doubt that because I have been there. It is good, very important to help. But there is a limit to sacrifices.

The universe has it all for all

Have you ever worried about the shortage of air to breathe? Did you stop breathing because I breathe? If you answered no this question, then, trust me: there is no such thing like a single basket of wealth that will be empty at any given time. The rich did not take your chances to become rich. Learn from how they think, what they do and how they do things and find your own path to riches. The Universe has them abundantly.

Your way is not the only way

Sometimes you ask yourself why things don’t happen the way you want them to happen. For example you are asking the Universe to give you a life mate of your dreams and you start describing him or her in details. The physical characteristics, the beliefs, the color of the skin, the cultural back ground, political affiliation etc.  Is this really necessary?

It doesn’t have to be like that. The most important, ask for a good relationship, believe and let  your subconscious mind communicate with the Universe to bring you your package.

Don’t try to meet others’ expectations at your own expense

Suppose today you have three important things on your agenda. As you decide to start with the first on the list, a friend calls and tells you that he wants you to join him at a party. You did not plan the event but you drop your work to please your friend.

I understand if he calls you to take him to the hospital because he is sick. That would be completely different. Always use your judgement but don’t live to please people at any cost.

Make light your burden

You have heard about” work hard to get rich”. Working hard is good but remember also that having fun, relaxing can help you achieve your goals. When you are stuck on a task after long hours of work, take time to relax, to get back your energy. Find a different activity.

There are times when we ask for too much from our body. Activity is then transformed into activism. We are no longer paying attention because we are exhausted. Know when to stop. Give yourself a break.