It hurts when you really love her and you go visit her and suddenly another guy shows up to take your place.
You watch then play, laugh and you don’t have anything to say any more. You feel like you should disappear under your feet but the floor is too hard to let you go. You want this to be a nightmare but you realize that it a true reality unfolding.
Guys, it is your turn to pay attention to the following lines. Are you a confident protector? May be she doesn’t feel the same way. Love can be blind.
Love is about emotions and a sense of great care. It has never been about reason or analytical thinking. This message from Soleilwriter will never expire.
I was recently invited to join this fascinating group on Facebook called “Honest Announcements”. This group is described as a forum for grown, mature members who want to share their life experiences with others.
The topics we often touch on are about love, relationships and oh yes, sex! The moderator states that the average age group is over 30 so therefore the topics are best described as insightful, thought provoking and brutally honest.
I have to say it has definitely been all of the before mentioned. While perusing through I found a “HE” perspective I thought I’d share.
WRITTEN BY A GUY : Girls need to realize: We guys don’t care if you talk to other guys. We don’t care if you’re friends with other guys.
But when you’re sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it makes us mad.
It doesn’t help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we’re still there.
We don’t care if a guy calls;OR TEXT you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned. Nothing is that important at 2 a.m.
That it can’t wait till the morning. Also, when we tell you you’re pretty/ beautiful/gorgeous/cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.
Don’t tell us we’re wrong. We’ll stop trying to convince you. The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence. Yeah, you can quote me. Don’t be mad when we hold the door open. Take Advantage of the mood I’m in.
Let us pay for you! don’t ‘feel bad’ We enjoy doing it. It’s expected. Smile and say ‘thank you. Kiss us when no one’s watching. If you kiss us when you know somebody’s looking, we’ll be more impressed.
You don’t have to get dressed up for us. If we’re going out with you in the first place, you don’t have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own. We like you for who you are and not what you are.
Honestly, I think a girl looks more beautiful when she’s just in her pj’s. or my t-shirt and boxers, not all dolled up. Don’t take everything we say seriously.
Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it. Don’t get angry easily. Stop using magazines/media as your bible.
Don’t talk about how hot Chris Brown, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us. It’s boring, and we don’t care. You have girlfriends for that.
Whatever happened to the word ‘handsome’/’beautiful’ i’d be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with ‘Hey handsome!’ instead of ‘Hey baby/ stud/cutie/sexy’ or whatever else you can think of.
On the other hand I’m not saying I wouldn’t like it ether. Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren’t being treated right by a guy, don’t wait for him to change!
Ditch his sorry butt, disgrace to the male population and find someone who will treat you with utter respect
Someone who will honour your morals. Someone who will make you smile when you’re at your lowest. Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes. Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.
